The Story of Joel
The kids on the bus asked, "You coming to the game tonight?"
"I can't. My grandmother's coming over.”
There was no visit from grandmother, of course, just another of Joel's
well-devised covers for the truth. Joel never went anywhere but straight to the
Blake House had been Joel's and his mother's home for the last four months.
The place wasn't bad; there simply wasn't any privacy. Sharing a room with his
mother was easier since she started going to night school. Many nights, Joel was
already in pajamas and ready for sleep by the time she returned.
For Joel's mom, the Blake House was nothing short of a miracle. She knew it
was hard on a boy of Joel's age but it was a comfort to know that he realized it
was necessary. One more day with her husband may have been the end of her or her
son, and Joel knew it too. In a way, it was his growing intervention in the
assaults that convinced her they had to leave.
For Joel, things had a calm predictability but the days went by slowly. His
mom was tormented by uncertainty. With the help of the Blake House staff she had
found a part-time job and a grant for vocational training. In spite of this
support, it was hard to imagine a time when she might stand on her own.
As Christmas approached, she started preparing Joel for the reality of the
upcoming holiday. She'd say they would have a nice dinner with their Blake House
friends and later walk a few blocks to take in the downtown view. She would
explain that, with luck, they could be in their own home by March and they would
have a private Christmas and presents then.
"I don't need
Christmas and I don't need presents," Joel grumbled.
"Scrooge!" she quipped back.
She was proud of his effort to deal with his envy of other children's holiday
excitement. He was so serious, though. She wished there was something she could
do to give him a lighter heart and a happier Christmas.
On the Saturday before Christmas the families and staff were enjoying their
holiday supper when Joan, the House counselor, called Joel's mom into her
"Do you have any plans tonight?" Joan asked.
"Joel and I are going to walk to the overpass to look at the downtown lights
Joan pointed out the front window, "Maybe you'd prefer to ride instead of
walk." Curbside sat a polished Town Car.
"I don't understand," was all Joel's mom could get out before Joan
"An anonymous friend has made arrangements for you and Joel to have use of
this car for the next five hours … which will come in handy since the
performance is across town. If you leave now, you'll have time to get in some
shopping before the show. What d'ya say? I thought so!" Joan smiled and led her
out of the office to get Joel.
"Ma'am," said the driver opening the door as the two approached the car.
"What's up with this, mom?" blurted Joel as the door shut.
"We're going to the show," she said bewildered, holding up her hands. As the
driver settled back into the Lincoln, he turned and smiled, saying, "I'll be
taking you to the mall before the show. And I was asked to give you this." The
driver handed her an envelope before he turned to set off.
"Please forgive this intrusion into your privacy," the note began. "I hope
you accept this invitation to a Christmas celebration. Enclosed you will find
two tickets to tonight's performance of 'A Christmas Carol' and a small token of
appreciation for your loving care of Joel." The tickets and a $100 gift
certificate slipped into her hand.
The note continued, "Christmas is a time of hope and gratitude. In hopes of a
prosperous New Year for you, and in gratitude to loving mothers like you, I wish
you a Merry Christmas. Remember, you are never alone in this world because where
love lives, friends always follow, seen or unseen. Sincerely, The Spirit of St.
"What's wrong, mom?"
"Nothing, honey," she whispered through tears, hugging her son. "Let’s go
Christmas shopping, my little Scrooge!"
The mother and son felt special that magical night and for many days and
nights that followed. The excitement of the performance and the touching story
of the play stayed with Joel and his mother for a long time.
It took longer than planned for them to get their own home, but by the
following summer they began what was to be many years of stable and prosperous
living. Forevermore, Christmas was their favorite time of year.
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From the Spirit of St.
Nicholas. Joel is now grown up and extends the grace of St. Nicholas to
others. He tells how to get the spirit
of St. Nicholas with helpful tips for
showing care and consideration to those in need.